Heavenly flight or belly landing

The male orgasm

As women so can also men experience multiple orgasms or orgasmic plateaus
(heavenly flight). The male orgasm doesn’t differ in its nature from the female; every orgasm-behaviour is learned and trained during a lifetime.

The usual course of arousal of male orgasm is striving in a linear mode towards a stormy discharge, after which the man prefers to withdraw. Often he feels tired and wasted and doesn’t want to be touched anymore (belly landing). This discharge is the ejaculation and happens in a genital orgasm.

Many men in our culture have only gotten to know the genital orgasm. Andro Andreas Rothe claims in his book „orgasm-school“, that men are thus following an escape-instinct from evolutionary history: they want to avoid being caught by the parents or other adults.

If the man is able to overcome the flight reflex, he learns over time how to consciously steer and expand his orgasm. An additional effect is that he can give more pleasure to his partner, since female lust needs time and trust. If a man can give her both, a woman can fully surrender and flourish. The direct focus on the goal of a genital orgasm therefore limits the man’s sexual possibilities. When he allows himself to expand and take his time he develops his ability to experience pleasure.

In the Dakini-Lingam massage you can take your time.
A pleasurable genital orgasm is allowed. On the other hand you can over time through the massage discover the possibilities of experiencing a whole-body-orgasm.
The freedom to be allowed but also the freedom to not have to and still to enjoy to the fullest – this is the aim of the Dakini-Lingam massage.

The experience of orgasm, just the way it happens right this moment, has always a full YES in the massage. However you experience yourself: It is appreciated and accepted.